Fatness

I think about fatness a lot, except when I forget about it while I’m living basically my entire life and then folks or certain situations remind me. But the fatness I’ve been thinking about lately is not my own. Fat has been a personal descriptor for me my entire life. Whether I was actually fat or not; I was told […]

I’m Not Here for You

December 2020 I’m not here for you. I’m here for me. I’m going to be serving up what the effervescent Jonathon Van Ness from Queer Eye would say is some “Realness.” Real experience, real feelings, real pain, real joy, real fun, real food, real struggles, real relationships, real trauma, real healing, all shared here. I’m a 49 year old, married, […]